What Happens When Your Twin Flame Dies?
No one likes to talk about Death, but it’s the biggest fact of Life. Perhaps the most horrible death experience is the loss of a child. Closely following, and one of the most difficult deaths, is the loss of a lifelong partner. Poets, philosophers and even scientists have attempted to describe the profound love between two souls. But words fall short when we try to define the ethereal nature of true love, and the powerful, eternal bond that exists between twin flames.
Researching the grieving process and the nature of suffering, I found great encouragement. There is abundant scientific evidence now available to support reincarnation and the soul contracts among twin flames separated by death. The numerous studies I uncovered shed light on why some couples who have been separated by death on the earthly plane reunite within a few months. Often the spouse left behind dies during this time frame.
The soul, trapped on the earthly plane following the death of a loved one, can tell the body to follow their partner to the other side. Now, we have the science to support this seemingly supernatural ability. Studies on reincarnation also help us understand the complex nature of the Soul and how two people can become co-dependent in their journey from here and beyond.
Popular and scientifically reputable magazines including Psychology Today and Scientific American report on this phenomenon – the ability of life-long partners to die within one year of each other – often without any medical ailment beyond the heart’s ability to shut down.
Oneness is the Foundation of A Soul Connection
There is ancient wisdom rooted in the awareness of the soul’s ability to stay connected. It is the same wisdom that the ancient mystics and shamans have been sharing for centuries. This “eternal connection” is the foundation of the new global paradigm emerging: The concept of Universal Oneness. Everything and everyone is divinely connected to one source, one energetic field. It is this eternal connection that the twin flame left behind taps into when their loved one transitions.
The new thought/ancient wisdom idea of Oneness automatically incorporates reincarnation in its definition. That’s how the eternal Soul evolves. It’s a beautiful plan, an excellent design. Twin flames shall be forever connecting and re-connecting in this world and in worlds beyond. It is divinely written in the soul contract.
The University of Virginia produced strong evidence supporting reincarnation based on clinical studies spanning decades. Reincarnation is a natural part of the soul’s evolution. It is therefore comforting to understand this divine truth when we lose our partner. ‘Knowing’ you will be reunited on the other side is a lot more reassuring than just ‘believing’ it might be true.
This collision of science and ancient wisdom helps us comprehend how the soul contract works – especially regarding relationships involving twin flames who die at the same time. How does that happen? What is it in the human body that allows the soul to transition following the death of a loved one? The answer lies in the heart. The heart contains ancient wisdom and the roots of consciousness. The heart is coded with your soul’s evolution and destiny. In fact, consciousness resides in the heart, not in the brain.
The Birth and Death Contract
Each one of us has an entry point and exit point from this lifetime which is predetermined by your soul contract. It’s a perfect design that you created before you incarnated here. Yet knowing there is a divine design, (which there is) doesn’t make the grieving process any easier. Losing any loved one can take its toll on your health. It’s important to listen to your body during the grieving time, and allow ample time to process the pain. Healing from a broken heart is unique for each individual. For a twin flame, the loss of a partner might even be life threatening.
The Widowhood Effect
The condition known as “the widowhood effect,” reveals spouses have a 66% increased chance of dying in the first three months following their partners death. These statistics are based on a 2013 study of 12,316 participants followed for over 10 years. The results, published in the Journal of Public Health were conservative with 66%, considering previous study showed a 90% increased risk of death following the loss of a partner. After the first three months, the risk of death drops to 15% according to the 2013 study. Men and women are both equally susceptible to the widowhood effect.
A 2008 National Institute of Health study examined more than 370,000 elderly married couples in the United States. This research found that within the first three months after one spouse dies, the chance that their partner will also pass is between 30 and 90 percent.
According to the University Hospital Science of Health Blog:
“The death of a wife correlated to an 18 percent increase in mortality for men, while the death of a husband correlated to a 16 percent increase in mortality for women.
In a recent article from the Harvard School of Public Health:
It’s unclear what causes the increased death risk from losing a spouse. “It’s possible it’s a grief-related mechanism, or that providing care for the sick spouse causes illness in the surviving spouse, or that, as one’s spouse gets sicker, the surviving spouse stops taking care of their own health,” said senior author [[S V Subramanian]], professor of population health and geography in the Department of Social and Behavioral Sciences at HSPH, in a November 14, 2013 Reuters article.
The widowhood effect has the medical community divided regarding its nature and cause. Yet, the spiritual community is fairly clear on what’s going on. We are spiritual beings with profound power and wisdom, and as One, two souls can travel together through lifetimes. It is the eternal soul connection between twin flames. Nothing can extinguish the fire of true love. Deep connective tissue binds the twin flames in a unique journey through multiple lifetimes and dimensions. This is true love in action. It is the miracle of the circle of life.
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Resources:
https://www.verywellmind.com/surviving-widowhood-4011236
https://www.uhhospitals.org/Healthy-at-UH/articles/2018/05/the-widowhood-effect
I am a twin flame, and have been on this journey for 31 years, both of us reaching for each other and a physical union. He just died 3 weeks ago, and this article is unsettling. Ive been in soul shock and grief like nothing i’ve experienced, but i have two young children and reading this makes me worry. I have no idea what to do, and i’m trying to find my twin but i can’t. i can’t feel him anymore, perhaps because my grief is too thick. I wish i could find him.
Hello Dear Sabrina,
I wrote you before but did not hear an answer. Losing someone is always painful, but don’t be unsettled by the strong connection between twin flames. The connection is eternal and nothing to fear, although grief is profound and that alone can be really scary. Please let me know if I can help you. But continuing to research and study the eternal life and twin flames is very productive even during this hard time.
Blessings,
Sally
I too have lost my twin flame, and I also feel the extreme pull everyday, which in all honesty excites me more than I can say, but I also believe certain things are holding the crossing over up and hopefully this is it.
Your twin flame knows you aren’t going to leave your children high and dry.
He’s going to want you to make those children are taken care of before you join him. I have to believe that because how do you think I made it
5 months with chest pains so bad sometimes I would drop to my knees and holler “Just let her get into college!” and they would stop.
Hello Wendy,
Thank you for your wise words, and the insight on the grief process after losing a twin flame. Once we realize that the Time energy is the only true conflict (this life is but a second in the evolution of our soul), we can realize that our hearts are eternally entwined, and we never really lose our loved ones. These days I am recommending the Netflix series “Surviving Death” to understand this concept more fully. It helps the healing process:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7M0Fq9M5t3M
https://www.netflix.com/cr-en/title/80998853
Again, thank you for sharing.
Love and Light,
Sally
sallyricepsychic.com
I lost my twin flame exactly 3 months ago and it isn’t getting easier. I’m questioning everything. He sends me number sign’s every day but it’s just so hard. I know he’s with me. It’s just so surreal. I wasn’t ready. He was only 35. And it was without warning but his soul knew from the messages he sent me before he died. There will never be another for me. For eternity. We knew we were twin flames. He described our previous incarnation in detail. My heart hurts so bad. I too have two daughters that are my life so I’m not going anywhere.
Omg I’m going through the same exact thing, my fiancé’s soul also knew because of the messages he sent me the same day he died and he was 34 and I also have 2 daughters. He passed away exactly 1 month ago today. It’s like you describe perfectly what I’m going through 😞💔 I’m sorry for your loss.
My twin had just turned 36 when he was murdered sitting right next to me. That was 4 and a half years ago. I didn’t know that pain like that even existed. I didn’t know a soul could hurt like that or cry out in pain the way it did. It wasn’t a heart ache. Heart aches heal. My soul cried so deeply I probably sounded like a banshee. I felt like half of my soul went with him. At the time I knew nothing about twin flames. I knew we were true soul mates but never had heard about twin flames. Well after he died, I went research crazy on anything spiritual. I guess I must be picking it back up cause here I am again reading all this in the middle of the night. I still don’t understand but only a little bit of how this all can work. But I want to share with you all, that last March, I was sitting in the courtroom during a recess waiting for the jury to come back in because it was my turn to testify. I felt this undescribable kind of peace that just flowed through my blood and my pores very quickly and very powerful. As soon as that kind of feeling hit my body my spirit I instantly knew that it was him. And it’s like I felt like he was talking to me through that energy through that rush through that peace. Like that was him telling me that he was at peace and that gave me peace. But I still felt like half of my soul was gone. A few months later, he came to me in a dream. In this dream he felt so real I could literally feel him and he had his arms wrapped around me very tight embracing me in a way that was saying I’m not letting go of you and I’m not going anywhere and when I woke up I felt like that part of my soul that had been gone was back again. And I felt whole. But now I feel like I’m mentally shutting off life itself and everybody in it. And I don’t understand why what’s wrong with me I have so many ideas and so many things I want to do I just can’t seem to put nothing in to drive and actually do anything. I miss him so much and I also wanted to let you know that my twin did the same thing that you were saying yours did it’s like he somehow already knew that it was going to happen it’s like he knew that he was going to die from the things he was saying and the messages he was leaving. And I know he had no way of knowing that he would get killed but some way somehow his subconscious Spirit something in him knew that he was about to go. Now it’s like I’m just existing I’m not living
I understand it’s undescribable pain!
O my I feel this the part about his soul knowing before hand .. my twin passed away car accident October 29th 2024 and he sent a letter a red rose and two very significant jewelry pieces the same day he passed .. as if his soul knew .. my heart is heavy and it hurts but he continues to send signs ..
My husband passed alittle over a year ago from an overdose and I found him along with my children my four young boys and I have come close to dying several times over this past year in fact I have died multiple times and have been brought back. I had to fill that awful weight on my chest and can barely breathe every day and I know it is him waiting on me. We promised each other that if anything ever happened the other would be there to join them immediately but I cannot leave our children with his parents to forget us both although he is my soulmate and the pain is more than I have ever felt in my life and I feel absolutely crazy sometimes because no one understands the magnetic pole we have can you hear me and see me because I feel like I’m going completely nuts
God Day Melissa,
You are a brave and mighty Soul having a split second experience in Earth School. Your loss right now is profound, and so painful. Of course you are feeling like you are going nuts, but you are not. All is held in the Eternal Space where you and your husband of This incarnation are still united. It is only a spec of your whole consciousness that is experiencing this journey now.
I recomomend you read Journey of Souls, by Michael Newton, to help you get clarity on your experience here. You are right, your children need you, and you need them. They are your link to the Divine, along with the Soul memories you hold in your Heart.
Love and Light Eternal,
Sally
I lost my twinflame a few months ago. We were married for 33 wonderful years. We never separated, we couldn’t. Even for a few hours , we either called each other or texted. We worked together, and we loved our date nights. We both were one. Everyone who knew us said our relationship was unique. I knew him in my heart before we even met, he felt the dame thing. After only 6 months of meeting, we married. am in my 50’s and we have an 18 year old son who is our gift. An angel, this is why I am still here. One week After my husband died , I had to have emergency surgery to remove my gallbladder. I was critical but I believe I had a choice to leave this world and be with my husband or stay and raise our child. I wanted to leave but I couldn’t leave my son orphaned so I came back. However, I am dead inside. My life is empty. I want to be the best mom and Im trying hard but inside Im destroyed. How can my husband be gone. This is the worst pain one can go through. He only visited my dreams twice. I don’t get enough signs from him. I feel abandoned and Im furious that I have to be here taking care of everything while he is somewhere beautiful without me.
I miss him .
Hello Catherin,
Yes, a broken heart is the greatest pain we will feel in Earth School. The greatest challenge therefore, is to truly KNOW that this life is but a fraction of a second in the life of your eternal Soul. You will certainly be reunited soon, in your great journey that never ends. This is why we incarnate. To transcend the suffering and realize that you are an eternal light being with no beginning and end. That does not mean however, that grieving is not painful. But it is why we are here. Sending love, and I’m here if you wish to connect with your angelic team, guides and loved ones across the veil.
Love and Light Eternal,
Sally Rice
I feel like I wrote this, I just lost my twin flame 5 weeks ago. After 20 years of union here. I have two small children. I can feel my twin but it’s in mostly small moments. A few big signs too. My heart aches for you and your children. I’m so sorry but know they are waiting for you.
Thank You Kim, your words are comforting and I pray you are healing as you learn to connect with your twin flame across the veil.
Blessings to you, and peace be still…
Sally
I am having the exact same problem! I have cried every day for almost 2 years. What can we do?
Even though very difficult, maybe try to stop trying to find him. Go within, find yourself again and most likely they will appear.
Hello Madam Raven,
Yes, I agree, but with clarification to Sabrina: While we want to set our “intention to connect to spirit” keeping the link open and available from our heart space, we don’t want to “order spirit to perform”. I had a client who kept telling her husband who had just crossed over: “If you are here, then show me a sign..” because this energy is coming from the head, the ego, the lower self. Spirit comes to us when are least expecting it, when we move out our head space, and back into our heart space, the present, the dreamy earth dream state we can fall into when gardening, or driving, or doing something mindless (fetch water, chop wood). Then Spirit Divine takes us over because we are available. So, as Madam Raven said, “stop trying to find him..(brain space) and Go within…(heart space).
Sending Love and Light from the Blue Zone.
I lost my fiancé 10 months ago very unexpectedly. We knew we were soulmates by the connection we had at the start. From the moment we shook hands and looked into one another’s eyes, it was like we had known each other and found home. Our friends would always tell us that we could be in a room full of people and yet be in our own little world, as if we were the only two there. We loved deeply and would fight just as intensely. If we ever parted ways, we felt lost and incomplete, and would always find our way back to one another. Throughout our relationship, it seemed we spent a lot of time fighting off people, mostly family and friends, who tried to cause conflict or break us up, because they were jealous and envied our love and connection, but they only strengthend our bond in time. However, there were times when both our family issues and problems with addiction on his side of the family, led to us parting ways a few times, and the last time we parted before he passed, I had moved out on my own, hadn’t talked to him for a month, and it was the hardest thing for me. I cried every day until the day he sent me a text to call him. We decided to work on things and he was going to work on getting clean to save our relationship. A week before he passed, he came to stay with me because he had a fallout with his family,and on the day he died we had gotten into an argument because he had used and lied to me about it. I told him to leave and he walked out the door. I called him 30 minutes later to tell him to come back, and while I was on the phone with him must have been when his accident happened. I didn’t find out until the next day when I reported him missing that he had drowned. I died that day when I found out, and I live with regret and guilt, even though everyone tells me that I can’t blame myself for the choices he made that led to his death. It was after his death when I started to research our connection, that i learned we were not only soulmates, but twin flames as well. I’m so devastated and broken hearted and I miss him all the time. I cry all the time and I’m constantly looking for signs that he’s around. I’ve had a Cardinal that shows up almost daily, which I’m told is most likely him telling me he’s around, but is that true? I haven’t had him come to me in my dreams or not sensed he’s around, but I’m not sure if my feelings of regret and guilt keep me from being able to see or sense him around me? Is the Cardinal his way of showing me he’s around. I know we’re twin flames who found one another because our connection was endless and knew no bounds, not even age though we were 17 years apart, with him being the youngest. We always talked about how if we liost one another, we would even be together as ghosts until we met on the other side……I miss him so much and love him even more……I’m lost without him!!!!
What do u think he would want u to do while your waiting, Ik it sucks but take it all in and learn from it, u still have to complete your journey then it will be your time to go reunite. This is my biggest fear ever to loose mine and mine is is phychosis at a phychward but I’m pretty sure no matter what happen they would want us to move forward and keep on pushing
I lost the love of my life to unexpected circumstances, I have 2 children and I felt I could not go on without him, I wanted to die, the grief I felt was like my heart had been ripped to pieces, I ended up heavily on drugs and my kids had to stay with my mum, then I had a dream that I was in the most peaceful place I was walking through a garden I could feel the wet grass on my legs and the sky was dusk the stars were shining and I can remember every single detail, the immense peace I felt was so strong, then I saw a leather cream setee and lee was sitting on it, I walked over and he stood up and took my hands, we started to talk but it was like telepathically I said “I can’t do this I want to come to you” he said “look around I’m fine, you have to go back for the kids, “ I said “ no I can’t do it, I miss you too much” he said “I’m always going to be with you, one day we will be back together but not yet, I love you” and then he hugged me and disappeared, I woke up and my radio was on and the song from his funeral started to play, I felt so much better as I KNOW that was him visiting me, I have only dreamed of him a couple of times since and it’s always In bad times but every night I go to bed I ask god to let him come to me, I got clean and this was 5 years ago on the 4th this month, I know I’ll mever find anyone like him again and I talk to him every day, I still cry when I hear a song or see some things that remind me of him, but my daughter is the double of him and I tell her look in the mirror when she wants to see him and it doesn’t get easier you just learn to live with it, I firmly believe you can die of a broken heart if I didn’t have my kids I’d be gone, but you have to carry on,
I lost mine 2 months ago, I’m 41 he was 45, i too have never felt pain or emptiness like this, its unbearable, i miss him so much. My heart goes out to you. I recently went to a profit, a man of God approximately 6 weeks after he passed, this man knew nothing of me till i went to his sermon. When he come to me, he told me things no one knew that validated he was not fake, then he told me that it was almost over that by January, early January why the 1st is sticking in my head idk, but my life would be better than it ever has, to hang in there. What just hit me thinking of his message, is I don’t remember him saying anything about my future, n now nearing January , Dec 29th to be exact, my life has gotten no better in fact its only worsened, n it hit me, i think I’m leaving this place soon, im actually excited for it, but I have a 18yr old and 21yr old, that’s what I hate about this, i truly believe i am going to be reunited with him soon, this article was strangely comforting and sad at the same time. I guess I will see if I am right soon. I hope you have peace and comfort now, just know your pain is shared. Love n light my dear!
Let me tell you my story:
Since age of 6, i started to feel a deep wound inside of me, a pain that i felt, is not coming from this Earth and nothing here can fill this hole. I was depressing in my bed while looking outside and feeling this emotions of deep loneliness. At age of 6.. it start young.
Because of this loneliness feeling, i always kept my sexuality sacred. I never kissed anyone because i reserved myself for only 1 partner and this partner will be my entire life. I’m in Fidelity and Honor. So i reserved my whole soul and body for the 1. (as a scoprion, i can tell you that it’s extremly suffering to have no physical intimacy)
At the age of 22 i’ve navigated through multiple meet sites and found nothing interesting, i was depressed about findind my Twin and not able to..
One day i got to toilet and while i was on the toilet my father ( wich was dead since 2006) told me in my head ” go looking again for other kind of Meet Sites, there are Sites you have not looking in ”. So i did it, i returned searching again, and found a new Meet Site.
I didnt scroll a lots to find my Twin. Even if it’s a picture, you will recognize your twin.
Just by looking at his face, i was able to read him. To read his emotion, who he was, his deep wound, his lack of love, his griefs.. all of that only by looking at a picture of him smiling.
I was able to read on his Right side face, how funny he was, how pure childheart he had, how sensual and caring he was, what kind of love he has to give and what kind of love he seek..
On his Left Side Face, i was able to read all his Griefs, his suffering, i was able to clearly see his lack of Love and a Big Black hole in his heart.
Seeing all of this make me feel more in love because i felt that i had inside of myself, the power to heal him up. I’m Golden energy, he’s White energy!
(In the afterlife, White energy is used for Peace, Joy, Love, Care, Sensuality, Protective Energy… Golden Energy is used as a Life Energy, an Healing Energy, a Warm Energy, also a Protective Energy.)
So since i’m Gold and he was White, we had the perfect match to heal our both Wounds.
the coincidence is that the first time i saw him on the Meet Site, was November 24 2013, the same exact date my twin took his life by hanging. At this time, i didnt know about his suicide, i only knew it November 29.
But between 24 and 29 there has been a huge amount of stress and panic. I sent my twin 1 email per day, i didnt want to annoye him with messages, so i sent 1 per day. I used the Law of Attraction to attract his attention toward me and push him to look at his email. I visualized he and i holding hands, making hugs.. all to help the Law of Attraction.
By seeing that he’s not responding to my emails, i start to panic. I have to find him, it’s urgent, I HAVE TO FIND HIM SOON!!!! REALLY SOON!.
I dont know why this panic, but i had to find him. I started asking help on Spotted Facebook and someone answered me his facebook acount. I was so freaking happy! I was finally be able to meet my twin!!
The happyness is explosive. It’s not like having a normal meeting with a random soul.. you’re about to have THE MEETING with your sacred partner, your TwinFlame!
I felt happy until i see that his funeral was November 30 2013.
Is you still alive I will like to know I have four children and I’m twinflames with a sick tWin right now our baby 2 years old and if he dies I wonder will I die
He will find YOU, as mine did. He will appear in dreams, and you will actually feel him around.
I don’t know how to be without my twin flame. We were close for 7 years through recovery and he lost his battle with addiction. I stayed sober and am grieving, trying to find a way to stay connected to him.
Hello Kelly,
There is no pain like grief, and the time it takes to heal is different for every person. Stay connected through conscious dialogue with your twin flame, and know that this moment is but a grain of sand in your soul’ evolution. You are eternally entangled with your soul mates, twin flame, and soul tribe. Peace be Still….
Hi
I list my twin flame 10 weeks ago and it has been a avalanche of emotions.We were platonic for 8 years and my heart opened the week he had a stroke and I realised how deeply I was in love with him. I got to tell him 24 hours before he transitioned.
We re connected within a number of days and communication is surreal. But I yearn for him.
Inga
Hello Inga,
What a blessing that you were able to communicate your love before your twin flame crossed over. Yes, the connection between two souls of this intensity is indeed surreal, and must be cherished and honored with our deepest heart awareness. There is no cure for heartbreak, only the depth of our souls awareness and transformation, as this is always the end result of the journey in and out of each lifetime. Life is eternal, our souls never lose one another, we just undulate like breathing, in and out, forever, eternally. Bless you sweet Inga.
Sally
Hello Inga,
If you are writing me here, then you have read my article on Twin Flames in Life and Death. Grieving from the loss of a loved one is painful and long. No one can tell you how to grieve, so all we can do is weather the storm and wait for the healing process to complete its stages. I’m so happy that you were able to open your heart to him before he transitioned. However, that is healing for You, since, once the soul transitions, it becomes All Knowing too, and therefore, he Knows the depth of your love, even if you hadn’t expressed it prior to his crossing. I send you love, and hope that you find peace in your heart,knowing that life and our relationships are eternal.
Warmly,
Sally
Hello Kelly,
I’m sending love and healing for your heart during this difficult time. I’d like to answer your question: “how to stay connected” in a video response because it’s so deep complex. But briefly, when a loving twin flame crosses, it can take awhile for the one left behind to feel and connect to the energy across the veil. But I promise, even though you say “I don’t know how to be without my twin flame..” you will learn to connect! Because that’s what we humans are capable of. But it takes time, and there is no guide book…kind of like parenting. But learning to connect to Spirit, in all its forms, is literally human nature. It is a hard road to hoe, but you will be, and already are, thriving and growing like a beautiful flower unfolding. I bless you on your journey and will address your email question in one of my online videos available on youtube and on my website under the blog category. Love and Light to you Kelly, and peace in your heart..
Hi sally! My twin flame passed 3 weeks ago and I’m searching for ways to connect with him because I feel him and want to learn more about it!
Hello Sophia,
I’m sorry for your loss, yet excited that you are open and eager to connect with your twin flame as he journeys in the eternal light. This is a big…no, huge experience for so many souls in earth school nowadays, as many are transitioning and those left behind are struggling to connect and experience the nature of the Eternal. We never look at this subject unless we experience the crossing of a loved one – after all, who wants to confront death, in all its gestures? It is painful and people don’t want to feel pain. Yet this is precisely how we evolve, as the caterpillar transforms to the butterfly, and the fire breaks open the acorn to produce the oak…..it is the raw, gutsy part of our existence. But all IS divine, and there IS a purpose to all things. If I can help you in any way to facilitate your journey to connect to the Spirit world, please contact me and I’d love to help you journey here.
Peace be Still,
Sally
i lost my twin flame 3 weeks ago also. he committed suicide because i’m married. pls help me. i want to be connected with him pls
I had a twin flame connection with a wonderful lady but she sadly passed four months ago at times I feel the the pain of losing her is overwhelming I know I’ll never meet anyone like her again some days I still cry so much over her I just wish I was with was with her again. I’ve lost other people in my life but never felt anything like such a profound devastating sense of loss. I just want to reconnect with her. Any tips to ease this feeling please
Hello Marc,
There is no cure for grief, and in my experience and belief the act of grieving is as divine and holy as the act of love, for it is the same…We only grieve the ones we love, and the quality of our grief is equal to the quality and quantity of our love. Like a scale, love on one side, grief on the other…it balances out.
The idea of handling loss and heartbreak is linked to each person’s connection with Spirit, and the understanding of what is indeed Eternal. Knowing that this life is a micro second, and that indeed you will be united with your twin flame soon, is ultimately the greatest truth that we can hold onto, while we journey through our classes in Earth school. Some days are easier than others, and over time you will find peace. I’m happy to help you connect if ever you need a session. Blessings and Light, comfort in your heart Marc….
Thank you for this article. I lost my wife to a completely unique form of highly-aggressive thyroid cancer almost 4 weeks ago. It came on so suddenly, with very little warning, and it took her after she fought for eight months. She was my home. And I am so beyond broken. I feel like I’m losing my mind. I can see how The Widowhood Effect might come into play. I have MS and it’s worsening considerably since she died. I am a poet, and that offers an outlet for some of the pain. I try to remember Rumi talking about being a guesthouse for all the things we feel. To welcome it in and sit with it. I am trying hard to do this, to feel the sharpness of my own brokenness. I can’t stand to be around other people right now. I live with my mother and love her so much, she is trying very hard to care for me and help me, but I can’t even stand to be around her. I’m 39. About to turn 40. And the life I thought was mine is gone. I know this is part of my soul contract, what I chose before I entered this body. But that doesn’t make it any less horrific, any less devastating.
Hello My Darling Beth,
Thank Spirit Eternal for the trust you felt sharing this divine beautiful story of you and your love, and the challenges you are experiencing now. I am honored that you shared with me, and I have so many thoughts, and “downloads from Spirit”, and perspectives I would like to share with you, but alas, it’s impossible to cover that in an email. Would you allow me to discuss this story in an anonymous answer to your questions in an online video? I am scheduled to make another in the next few days, and I”ve been struggling with a topic. This is so beautiful, even though You are currently living in the worst state of grief.
Here is another article about grief that is important. https://sallyricepsychic.com/how-can-you-mend-a-broken-heart-understanding-the-science-of-grieving
But here is also a personal truth that is in my foundation of Knowing, directly from Spirit God: Grief will feel like a personal death. It is the biggest life pain, because The Weight of Grief is Equal to the Weight of Your Love…
More love, more grief, and it’s horrible.
But guess what. Your soul contract is fixed. You came into this incarnation on a pre-determined soul contract date, and your exit date is equally intact. You cannot change that. Just as the apple seed is coded to become the apple tree. You cannot wish it to be otherwise, and the life evolution cycle is coded for humans just as it is in nature.
So, in the face of grief, you might very well wish death on…(I remember that feeling, when I lost my beloved, a few times).
But you cannot argue with Spirit. You cannot Will your crossing-over to come sooner, to relieve your grief. It doesn’t work that way.
Feel your grief and express it as it needs to be expressed, for it is equal to your love.
Fear not. You Will Survive in this experience in the Most Profound, Divine Way! This is Your beautiful Earth Story Unfolding. But losing a loved one is the worst pain in Earth School. It just is.
I will make my next online video about this subject, and the soul contract with regards to birth and crossing over in this incarnation. If you go to https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnzBj4WlwPodc09CTri-QDg and subscribe, you will be notified when a new video is produced, as well as subscribing here on the website sallyricepsychic.com. Both will alert you when it’s done. I hope to do it this weekend.
I would love you to watch an important documentary about NDE’s (link below) so you feel more at peace with the omnipotent and omniscient presence of Spirit and the divine Story that belongs to You:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7_mSPxColVI
Sending Love and Light,
Sally Rice
This was a beautiful read, my twin flame passed away in September 2022, 1 month before our son was born. I’ve been wanting to connect to him so badly lately and wish to know more about the eternal connection twin flames have. Since his passing I have been finding every day life so hard but know I must stay as I have our child to care for. He was only 23 and we had our whole lives to live, it just felt like it was cut short and I’ve been trying to find out a lot more about soul contracts.
My twin flame passed away a year ago, August 11, which caused me a lot of anxiety. Now the anxiety is worse, along with grieving. I have always said that I couldn’t live in a world without him in it and now I have trouble sleeping and sometimes I just don’t want to be here. I ran from him for years, because of his addiction and my troubles. I still need to heal, but I’m not sure how without him here. I miss him terribly.
Hello Tyra,
Thank you for sharing your story; it helps us all on our road to recovery from loss. Grief is extremely debilitating, and the healing process is unique to each individual. And the time it takes to heal is also as unique as your fingerprint – so take all the time you need. Know that grief is actually part of the healing process…you are actually expanding your awareness of your soul connection and life purpose when you take the time to meditate on the relationship and the soul contract you have together.
Please know that I am here to help you if you need guidance from Your Spirit Team, to connect, and to better understand the soul journey in Earth school.
I highly recommend you read the book Proof of Heaven, by Dr. Eben Alexander https://www.amazon.com/-/es/Eben-Alexander/dp/1451695195 to help you understand that the Divine is ALWAYS present, and there is love surrounding you at this very moment, as Your soul journeys from grieving to awakening of your Spirit destiny. I send you love and light. Know that you are surrounded by your dynamic spirit guides who never leave your side. You are divinely Loved.
Peace and Blessings,
Sally
I lost my husband/twinflame to a mental illness that caused suicide. I cry every single day and have for almost 2 years. I have so many unanswered questions. I’ve tried repeatedly to make contact with him but I’ve failed each time. He was my life and I am lost without him. What can I do?
Hello Jerri,
I’m so sorry for your loss, and the pain that you still bare inside your heart. I would love to help you process, and answer your questions about your husband. There are no easy answers, but I can share of course what I believe is the best resource to understanding our journey in Earth school, especially when there is a loss from suicide. If you haven’t read it already, please read Proof of Heaven, by Dr. Eben Alexander. It will answer many of your questions. It is so important to understand the soul contract – that all entry points and exit points are predetermined prior to our incarnation.
One of my favorite lines of the book is: You can do no harm.
Sending much love and peace for your heart, as you continue your journey. Please know I am available to help you in any way if you choose to book a private session so we can connect to Your Spirit Team.
Warmly,
Sally
Hi, My twin flame left me on this side on 8/21/2020 from complications with covid. We are classic twin flames having limited time together, very intense, finally married for four years before he passed. He would say he is home with me, she is me, and that he out magnets in me and we always come back together. I feel him around me now and he has sent various signs to me and my daughter. Anything you can share would be appreciated.
Hello Trish,
Thank you for sharing Your precious story of your twin flame. I’m so sorry that you are grieving this loss, so soon after marriage. What a wise and evolved soul he was. The “she is me” shows that he is fully aware of the beautiful extension of his spirit, and the eternal connection of loving souls. Yes to all his words, YES YES YES. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if everyone were as “awakened” as he is, forevermore.
Also, your ability to communicate with him, and your daughter’s connection too, should show you that your relationship is just evolving, he is not gone, and he will continue to communicate with you…again, eternally.
In the meantime however, the grieving process must be experienced in its full splendor, as painful as it is. The process is personal to everyone, but it provides the perfect platform for reliving all past journeys together, and to also help the soul heal in knowing, finally, that the connection is eternal, and that this lifetime is but a fraction of a second in the lifetime of twin flames journeying through the eternal Now.
Of course, I always recommend Dr. Eben Alexander’s books: Proof of Heaven, and Map of Heaven. Must reads, for anyone experiencing loss.
Peace and Blessings Trish, and my your healing bring you closer to your twin flame as you continue your eternal path together.
Hello Trish,
You are very lucky to have shared precious time together with your twin flame, but the sadness from his crossing must certainly weigh heavy on your heart. So many twin flames never make it to the point of uniting permanently in one incarnation – as it can be quite challenging for twin flame relationships to overcome their “challenging stories”. But it is glorious that you were able to marry, and share 4 years together, despite a tragic departure from this earthly adventure together. Of course, everything you mentioned He would say is spot on, in my view, and certainly he was an enlightened soul,ready for his next assignment. And Yes, you are One, and of course you will be united, for eternity.
The only real peace during the grieving process is to focus on the time factor: This lifetime, a micro-second in your soul’s transformation. And in a blink of the eye, you will be united, although it can sometimes feel like an eternity while we grieve. Peace in your heart dear Trish, and if you haven’t read “Proof of Heaven” by Dr. Eben Alexander, I highly recommend it, as it will give you a bit of relief in knowing the eternal nature of your divine relationship with your loved one.
Peace and Blessings,
Sally
I’ve been on this journey almost 39 years.. 3 years ago I found my twin flame when our eyes met I remember thinking to myself don’t look too long he’ll trap you with his gorgeous blue eyes. And that he did our first conversation we ever had was about string theory. We were comfortable together the longer we were together the more so with loved each other it was amazing, I told him everything even things that I never told anybody in my life cuz I knew you wouldn’t judge me.he is the only person that could ever tell me I’m beautiful and I believe him . I had done it I had finally found my first & one true love,even after being married once and having a number of relationships. Sadly he passed away three months ago at the age of 26. I feel utterly lost with him gone but I know that it was part of our social contract and we must follow our contract. Henry I hope you’re in a happy place and that you don’t have to fight that horrible feeling of trying to be normal anymore and I hope we can spend the rest of Eternity in the cosmos with pure peacefulness watching over me until we meet again. I’ll be here babe.
Hello Nikki,
Losing a loved one is always tragic, and a twin flame relationship loss can be devastating. You certainly have your perspective clear, but that doesn’t make the pain any less severe. The only comfort really, is in the knowing of the brevity of our ‘time’ spent in each incarnation. Literally a blink of an eye in the eternal evolution of the soul. Know that Henry is indeed at peace, in the bliss, in the eternal loving dimension of the Divine. Crossing so young, at only 26 is further proof that he was a light being, who didn’t need any more “lessons” here in earth school. You will see him in a half-second when your journey here has been fulfilled…again, just a microsecond in space-time…Hang in there, and spread as much love as you can, in his honor.
Peace and Blessings Nikki…
Sally
This is a response from one viewer to another here at Agape Costa Rica. I love when we can all share our collective wisdom.
Sally Rice
Hi Nicky,
Your story is beautiful. I met my twin flame when I saw him in high school. I always wanted to know him. But I got to know his Mom like a Mom cuz mine passed right after15 years old. When I met Kenny 54 years later we connected like we both never have. I had so many failed marriages. I gave up looking for that one love so stayed in 29 year verbal abusive marriage…. he was in a longer marriage floating there life. Then one day we decided to meet. Since he knew of me , we even work in the same place for years never to get talk to each other. I though he was happy. His Mom always wanted me to marry the other Son. He passed away November 13 at 63 years old . We found each other 2 years 3 months ago. Been living a Heaven on Earth 10 months with his daughter. Covid took his life…. i recovered. Iam so heartbroken. Help me get to that point of going on… we were twin flames ? i?he felt it to. We share an awesome short time. We had a contract? Please explain. Thank you. Kim
Thank you Kim for sharing your personal story. We all benefit from personal wisdom. Blessings and Light.
Sally
You can connect with him by going outside and meditating, Ask heaven mother nature to send you a sign, then wait.. it might be the way the wind blows or a bird
Exactly Lisa, that is a wonderful way to connect to Spirit. Works every time, if you are patient, open and willing….
Spirit loves to connect and is waiting for us all to open and receive divine guidance.
Peace Be Still
My daughters boyfriend was killed in a car accident a week ago. He was only 18. They were friends since the 9th grade and began dating 7 months ago. They were twin flame soulmates. They loved each other and everybody that seen them together knew it. They have already connected and speak to each other everyday. She doesn’t know how she is going to make here without him. She is only 20.
Hello Gabriella,
What a tragic story for you all to experience. I’m so sorry for this challenging chapter in your lives. If I can help in any way, either for you or your daughter, please connect. There is nothing to take away the pain of grief, it is a painful part of Earth School, but at least we can connect with Spirit, and learn too, how to stay in communication with our loved ones across the veil. Sending prayers and peace for your soul during this difficult time.
Eternal Light and Love,
Sally
Hello Gabriella,
What a tragic experience for your daughter, and of course the entire family of friends and relatives associated with your daughter’s boyfriend who transitioned so young. There is no cure for grief, and the process is unique for each individual. I would love to help your daughter manage her impressions and emotions during this painful journey, so please schedule a session with me if you think it would be appropriate.
During this challenging chapter of life, the best go-to is a book by Dr. Eben Alexander: Proof of Heaven. It is remarkable, coming from a Harvard brain surgeon who spent most of his life as a non-believer until he “died” and had a profound experience with the afterlife. His book details the journey.
Please contact me at any time if you would like me to work with your daughter to help her through this difficult time.
Sending much love, support, and peace in your heart,
Sally
I met the love of my life 4 1/2 years ago. It was an instant connection like we always knew each other. We completed each other’s sentences, knew what the other person thought without saying a word. Sometimes it felt like we had lived parallel lives without ever crossing paths. Meeting him felt like coming home after a long trip. It was a very intense, all consuming relationship. He passed away 3 weeks ago. The pain is unbearable and I ask him many times a day to come and get me. He was fighting with cancer and died of a brain hemorrhage (complication of cancer). I miss him so much. I can’t do life without him…
Hello Chantal,
Yes, the pain is excruciating and the grief process feels like Live Death, as truly, our hearts feel that life without our beloved is impossible to bare. I know I repeat my words often, but the pain IS equal to your LOVE, and that is what makes it so difficult at first. Time will ease this pressure, and as you grow to Know your twin flame in Spirit, you will find that your relationship is not gone, it just evolved to be – for what truly is a microsecond in your soul’s evolution – a new kind of connection while you remain in Earth school, feeling perhaps left behind, while he is is the divine dimension of the eternal light. You will feel him, he is not gone, not lost, not absent. He is just in another field of awareness, and you will see the Spirit working through You as you develop your abilities to connect to this new eternal dimension of Love.
If there is any way I can help you transition to this awareness of his divine presence, please contact me for a session, and we can connect to his eternal Spirit.
Love and Light,
Sally
I’ve read some of the comments here… Honestly I’m shocked. I lost my husband last month the 2nd of September.
Together we have 2 kids and he has 2 kids from his previous relationship.
He left 4 kids behind, I can’t go anywhere…
I miss him so much I can’t take it anymore.
I’ve been to the hospital and I’m still dealing with pain. The doctors have done multiple blood tests and they say it’s stress related. After his passing I saw an emerald green Hummingbird, so did my mother and sister in law. Then he visited me and put his hand on my head. After that I had weird Dreams and I got this time that’s been bothering me. 23:11 & 23:13. His death was terrible. He was bumped by a speeding car. The night of his passing, I was asleep in bed with our youngest child waiting for him to come home. She is 4 months old today.
I feel so lost and angry with life.
Hello Jessica,
My heart weals for your loss, and the grieving process you are going through now. I would like to help you process, and there are many things we could do to help you move forward.
I would never solicit a session, however the grief and suffering you are experiencing cannot be resolved in an email here. I am feeling your pain, and am sending you reiki healing, comfort and love.
I recommend – as I do to all souls who have lost a loved one in this incarnation – to begin with Dr. Eben Alexander’s book “Proof of Heaven” for understanding the journey of our Eternal Lives.
Love and Light sweet Jessica,
Sally Rice
sallyricepsychic.com
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My Heart Weeps For Your Loss……..dear mommy Jessica.
My partner and I had a great connection from the start. It only took a day, we spent all night talking. The connection was amazing we got along perfectly. The only thing was our own enternal healing from childhood that caused drama. We healed each other in many ways, but egos and pride got ahold of us. we were together off and on for 6 years. we would seperate less then a day even if we were mad we talked. When seperated we had dreams of each other. He died Sep 19 2020, it has been hard. I hear his favorite songs, I feel him, smell him at times. I am ok physically but emotionally I feel like a big whole is in me. I have delt with grief but this is different. I never had this much pain or lost my happiness enternally like this before. I feel like a piece of me is gone, I am ok some days and others, My memories take over which sometimes Im happy and other times I just cry.
Hello Veronica,
I wrote to you earlier, briefly, and wanted you to know how lucky You are to have found your soul mate, twin flame, in This lifetime! So many people do not get the gift of love, believe it or not. Many cross over out of this incarnation never even knowing what romantic love, with a divine partner, is, or can be.
You found love, and it was love at first sight, as you wrote. You healed each other in many ways. You experienced a re-birth from old wounds from childhood. You grew in heart and soul. Then he moved on ahead, and yes you will see him in a few seconds – like tomorrow – because life IS that short!
Even though you feel like there is a hole in your heart, it will pass. The loss will never go away, but your heart Will heal, and you Will find peace again. Lucky You! Lucky you to have experienced love, and lucky you to know Love first hand. Just as we all die from this incarnation, we all will lose something along the way, and then we will heal. Literally, “to have loved and lost is better than never having loved before”. Thank you Alfred Lord Tennyson. But words of reassurance don’t take the pain away. It’s entirely personal, and private…how we grieve. But as I say to everyone experiencing grief: Your grief = your love. The more you love, the more you grieve. They go together. But your heart will sing in its awareness of your love story. And you will be united again. That’s guaranteed. Please share your feelings and healing with others, as you shared here. It helps us all grow, and heal, together.
Love and Light,
Sally
My Twinflame died 3 years ago he was murdered at a party it was covered up as a suicide I feel so lost without him its been hard I just want him to hear me and to speak to me about everything that bothers me but he can’t and it feels horrible like
a part of my soul has vanished.? he died 2-5-18.
Dear Cat,
He does hear you, I promise. I would recommend you watch the series on Netflix: Surviving Death. It will help your brain to Know what your Heart and Soul know – that you are divinely connected, and there is nothing that will ever change that. If your brain can understand this as fact, your heart will heal so much faster. The loss will never go away, but the pain will.
https://www.netflix.com/title/80998853
Sending Love and Light,
Sally
Hi, my name is chantelle forcier
My situation might be a little unique?
My twin flame was first my best friend for years. I was actually with his brother (I know..I feel the guilt…falling in love with not only 1 brother, but 2. They are opposites of the same coin for me.
I was only connected with my twin flame physically for a short time. And I lost him on jan 6th to the war on fentanyl.
At first…I was in a state that I was determined, to fulfill my purpose and then join him. I have the other brother to care for my 8 yr old daughter after I pass.
I have been very sick for a long time
I have lupus and scleroderma, and have experienced major trauma throughout my life. However my twin flame, scott obrien, had been able to break down all of my walls and see the soul within me. We are connected through the heart in so many ways. I miss him tremendously, and the only thing that keeps me going..is knowing that I finish what we started before I can join him.
I have never felt this type of love before….we didnt have enough time together…I feel we hadn’t even started really enjoying the physical connection this world has to offer.
I am trying to grieve..yet I’m not sure how to
I still feel so connected to him
The pain is there…but also the comfort that he is now able to help me on my journey as an angel from above. He has leveled up. Awakened. And with the creator…he is special. His soul, enlightenment, I am at peace most of the time. Until I’m not and my heart literally feels like its calling out to him. Wanting to feel his lips one more time, touch his beautiful curly hair one more time…or remembering the way he looked at me…pure love, pure passion.
Yup.. .this is a hard one. I have experienced loss and heartbreak…but losing my twin flame…has definitely been the hardest.
Hello Chantelle,
What a beautiful story you shared, although your heart aches, you Know (not believe) that you will be reunited again, that he is your twin flame, and that your soul is eternal. But, our brain tortures us with the idea that our grief will last forever..
But this Life….it’s a microsecond in our soul’s evolution. I highly recommend the series Surviving Death on Netflix: https://www.netflix.com/title/80998853
Also, if you can read the book Proof of Heaven by Dr. Eben Alexander, you will feel immediate relieve in your heart and soul: https://www.amazon.com/-/es/Eben-Alexander/dp/1451695195
And finally, Map of Heaven: https://www.amazon.com/-/es/Eben-Alexander/dp/1476766401
I wish you peace and healing in your heart,
Sally
My twin passed over three weeks ago. I’m definitely going through a soul shock, I haven’t been able to eat or sleep, there’s also so many more strange physiological changes with my body. My mind is numb, I reached for alcohol because it has always been a coping mechanism for me but it does absolutely nothing at this point. I only knew my twin for 2 years and 8 months but it was the strangest most mystical experience of my life. I feel blank and robotic, I feel as though my soul is broken, not just my heart. I feel as thought he took a part of me that I don’t know how to survive without. This emptiness I feel is so painful, I don’t know when I’ll be able to feel somewhat leveled or normal.
This makes so much sense. My twin flame just passed away, & since then I discovered I think I have skin/eye cancer. I feel like he made me look. He was a paramedic, so he was always trying to help me. I feel I may be on my way out soon to meet up with my twin flame again & for good this time. I do believe in this.?
I was told that keeping my twin flames belongings after he dies is not good for his soul and that I am to get rid of everything of his including his ashes. Is this true? Please help im feeling utterly lost
Hi Amanda. I lost my husband last month so I was wondering the same thing. I don’t want to let go of his belongings though…. I’m so lost.
My brother and I are twin souls.He died Nov 17 2018.Over the last 10 months Ive been able to talk with him telepathicly.He told me a month ago I will die before November from viruses in my body that will enter my blood.He says near the end of october I will go to sleep and wake up in heaven .
hi. i just lost my twin flame 3 weeks ago. it feels like i wanna die also. please tell me what to do. you can email me at [email protected]
My twin flame passed away back in October it’s been 5 months almost to the date and the pain of losing him hasn’t gotten any easier,not a day that goes by that I don’t long for him. Some days I can feel his energy with me most days I do not. I truly miss his energy presence his soul and Spirit and this is honestly the worst pain ever felt my entire life. I met him and only knew him for 3 months before he passed but I’ve never ever had love for anyone else as much as I love him, losing him has truly been the worst pain that I’ve ever felt. How can I know that we’ll be reunited in the future?
Hello Petra,
I can guarantee 100% you will be united with your loved ones, all of them, once you leave this incarnation. In order to find peace, you might want to go to my website, and choose BLOG heading. Then look at the recent post I entered on SOUL CONTRACTS. You have one, and it you are literally entwined with your beloved, both in this lifetime – the Dream – and the wakened state of The Eternal Realm, some call Heaven.
Blessings and Eternal Peace for your healing heart,
Sally
Chantelle forcier is a very mentaly ill women who belives in a fantacy that some man she barley new was her twin flame she thought he didnt think she was crazy because he agreed with all her crazyness but realy behind her back her twin flame use 2 tell me all the time what a nut job she is and he didnt know why he was with her lop
My husband was spiritual and a healer, he was always talking about the divine and love, he tried to live his life in service to others since he became spiritual around 6 years agai, he always signed off cards he wrote to me “your twin flame”. We were together 28 years, I was 15 when I got with him and we were inseparable ever since. We went on a Easter break in our camper before we left I didn’t want to go something just didn’t feel right, 2nd evening in I had cross words with my husband over something so stupid, crumbs in the bed, he left our camper to go for a walk, that wasn’t strange he loved nature and would often walk barefoot to connect with nature. I went to look for him during the night as he didn’t return, we where by a river walk with lots of trees, I brought my dog with me, the dog got so far and kept pulling me back towards the camper, I found it strange as she loved her walks so it frightened me a little, I thought to myself my husband must not be down that way as the dog would have brought me to him. At 6am I went to look for my husband again with the dog who still would only go so far before pulling at me to go back, I made the dog continue and found my husband face down in the river, I wanted to die there with him, I wish it had been me, he’d been able to navigate this better with his strong beliefs. I no that he’s my twin flame I don’t no what my purpose in life is without him
Hello Anne,
Your story is profound, and I can certainly understand your deep sorrow and suffering following his transition, and certainly after discovering him in the river. How tragic and heartbreaking. I can promise you, there is Spirit’s love and guidance with him, and the soul contract he fulfilled. I would like to share this article with you, on your healing journey:https://sallyricepsychic.com/how-can-you-mend-a-broken-heart-understanding-the-science-of-grieving
Of course, if you want to learn more about your soul contract and your twin flame relationship, I’m here to help: https://sallyricepsychic.com/
Love and Light,
Sally Rice
Thanks Sally, I’ll check out the links.
Anne
My twin flame of 28 years went Home about about two months ago, she was only 51. We packed so much life and learning in the 28 years we were together, and raised two kids. The kids are 17 and 21. It’s been a tremendous battle during this grieving period, just looking pictures of her would set off a wave of emotions. I know she loved me, and she loved the kids and had so many hopes for them.
Because of how suddenly I lost her, I’ve been on a renewed spiritual journey, my wife was very faithful to her religion but I needed more insight into what happened when she transitioned Home and what she’s experiencing in the afterlife. That’s when I learned about the concept of twin flames.
At the same time, I scrambled to get my affairs in order for my kids and get a plan in place because I’m 50 and my health isn’t that great. We also have a long family history of cardiovascular disease and early death. I may only have a few years left here, history and genetics are not on my side. Grief has taken a huge toll on my body as well, I am taking care of myself and getting to the doctors. but it’s beating me up.
I mentioned this to a few people that they made the assumption that I was getting ready to die now and leave the kids behind. I do feel like dying and getting reconnected with my twin flame, but I can’t because I don’t know what the end date is on my life contract. So I’m here until that time comes, but in the meantime I have people yelling at me left and right “You need to take care of the kids! You need to think of them! You need to FIGHT and be here for another 30 years!” It’s infuriating to say the least. I know I need to be here for them, and I know I’ll reconnect with my twin flame when it’s time.
I don’t know why everyone thinks I’m just going to abandon them. I’m not, but again I don’t know what the contract terms are and if I’m done, I’m done. It might be within the year or 10 years from now. I will eventually have to leave them and they will need to move forward and experience and learn on their own. That’s why I’ve been trying to prepare them now rather than wait until the hour of my death.
All this pressure from everyone is making feel guilty about wanting to go Home and be with my twin flame sooner rather than later, and it gives me the worst anxiety thinking I may be stuck here for another 10+ years because of my obligation to the kids. Am I wrong for trying to get them prepared now to continue on their journeys on their own? If not now, when? Am I wrong to wanting to reconnect with my twin flame at all?
It’s been two weeks and I’m lost . I can hear him answer my questions in my head but it’s just not enough . Waking at 232 and 323 every morning and if I don’t I am so upset that I didn’t meet with him . I’m so upset about the accident . I had just gotten off the atv minutes before I watched him crash 600 feet to his death . With no way to get to him . I’ve seen him on the crystal road and I’ve visited him with my higher self . He promised he was guiding me . But I have hit a stage of anger at being left here to raise our four sons without him . It hurts so bad I want to lay down and die . Just be with him . Like others said . People looked at us and were so envious of the love we shared . We knew we were different than others . We had so many plans here . Even with him telling me he’s ok and we will be together soon I feel lost and broken in this realm . I want to be with him . I don’t want to be here .
Dear Haley,
The pain and suffering from grief is monumental, and yes, the feeling of despair is profound. Please read this article about grieving from a broken heart, as it will provide some peace and understanding as you go through this challenging time. Words cannot take away the pain, but you will survive, and I guarantee, what feels like forever right now, will be experienced as a microsecond in your time line when you awaken from this dream to be reunited with your loved ones across the veil: https://sallyricepsychic.com/how-can-you-mend-a-broken-heart-understanding-the-science-of-grieving
I lost my twin flame 5 days ago, we were not married, but connected past 10 years, nobody knew about it. Our married lives were not at all good, mine worst, livin under te same roof but not communicatin past 8 years. My TF never insisted to make physical relationship, thinking of respecting my feelins. But the pull was magnetic, when together, our embrace will never finish, be it 2-3 hrs, we cudnt stay at a distance. He moved with family to distant city but, whenever we met, once in a year, it never faded away, constant longing was there. We were above 60 but still felt like teenagers with each other. A beautiful love….I was waiting for his arrival this year , but he passed away for my worst luck. Second blow came to me after his death about his undisclosed short visit of 2 days with his wife to my city without my knowledge!! It was a double blow…He kept on sayin me that he will come after 15 days, his earlier program was cancelled. He was not doing well since past 6 months , I knew.
Why did he lie to me for the first and the last time in life! During his stay, He was in touch by msz, and afterwards also till the last night of his death. I dont want to go to his graveyard thousands of miles away for last rituals in presence of his wife, bcz if alive , he would have never liked his wife’s hysteric shouting , doubts, heated voice in ill condition, secondly Im angry on him for hiding about his visit.
Was not he my twin flame, though we were burning for each other all these years without crossing sanctity of our marriages. But , we had made a promise of marryin each other if our patrners die.
Anyway, One day I will travel, go to his graveyard when alone, I will sit there silently and ask him , and pray him to call me soon to be united up there. I cannot live like this. If my TF , WOULD HE CALL ME